Why Dave?

My perspective is that the focus of our time together ought to be on you – or us, together.  But in this section, I’m going to share a bit more about myself. Please don’t misunderstand and think that this is all about me. It’s just that you’re on the “why” page, so this is where you get to hear reasons for choosing to be with me.Dave

You can count on me: I am very reliable.  I’m not going to book an appointment with you and then call you to reschedule, to juggle appointments.  I’m not going to mix up the address you’ve given me, and end up on the wrong block, late for our session.  My prices are true – you won’t find any bait-and-switch, no upcharges, no surprises to your wallet.  And, that wallet (and watch, necklace, keys, cell, etc.) are all going to remain in your possession when we say goodbye.

I have high standards for myself.  I am gracious, patient, compassionate, respectful, and sincere.  I’ve been told that I have a good sense of humor, and don’t take myself too seriously – which is apparently an asset for this type of work.  I’ve also been praised for keeping the business side of things separate from our experience – meaning, you’re getting all this information from me here, but once we’re together, business is the furthest thing from my mind.  And, I don’t cram my schedule with so many appointments that I’d be worn out – even while traveling.

There are a number of people I’ve seen who, when we first met, were nervous or perhaps a bit shy.  I’ve found that once we are face to face, people become at ease with me.  I don’t know why this is the case, but it’s a phenomenon I’ve experienced all my life.

When I first started out in this industry in 2004, I don’t know if I could honestly have said that.  But now I feel confident expressing that statement.  Years ago, the porn star Nina Hartley (one of my mentors) said to me, “You know how you get really good at sex?” I shook my head, “No…”  She looked at me straight on and said,  “By practicing.”  Well, I’ve been practicing hard, ever since…

I’ve been voted one of the top escorts in the USA, for several years now.  I’m blessed in that the escort friends of mine who are also considered top in the business, think well of me.  And I’ve been lucky to consistently get positive reviews.  But please, don’t take my word for this.  There are over 170 reviews written about me, on this site alone.

I am very well-educated, have traveled and lived in various parts of the world, and speak several languages. I like to think that I have very few prejudices: I am not racist, sexist, ageist, classist, or sizeist.  Nor am I xenophobic: I am accepting of people from different cultures and backgrounds and beliefs.

Furthermore, I hold no sexual prejudices.  I welcome all genders – male, female, and transgender.  And I haven’t any judgement of people due to their orientation (gay, lesbian, queer, bi, straight, curious, questioning, etc.)  I myself am bisexual, 50/50, “right down the middle.” I don’t lean one way or the other… I love getting naked with men and women equally.  Finally, I welcome people with all levels of experience, regardless of whether you’re inexperienced, somewhat experienced, or very experienced.  I also welcome people with various interests – whether you want to play in the realm of kink, prefer vanilla activities, or perhaps try something new

I’m real – a nice, normal guy, who honestly enjoys meeting people.  I am passionate, and truly love this work.  I just happen to be quite open, rather flexible, really versatile, and very adventurous.  Which may be why I love being an escort so much.

Please read ‘Reviews’ and ‘Discretion’ for information about why someone might hire me.